Wednesday, January 04, 2012

And don't come back

This is the day that the LORD has made;
    Let us rejoice and be glad in it!

- Psalm 118.24.

This time five years ago, I was receiving weekly doses of poison and daily radiation burns to my chest after being diagnosed with a rapidly growing malignant tumour just above my heart and invading my left bronchial tube. Today, I went into an oncologist's office and was told not to return, as five years of follow up is enough.

Although it is still possible for me to experience relapse, the chances are that any cancer now found in my body is more likely to be a new growth than a renewal of the one that was well on its way to killing me in 2006/07. I am obviously delighted to reach this milestone and continue to receive each day as a gift. I did not deserve to live, did not earn my reprieve, did not qualify for healing through the quality of my faith. Faced with a very rare form of cancer (numerous specialists have given me the impression that I'm one in a million), medical science took its best (highly educated) guess as to treatment and it worked beyond all expectations.

And so praise God for life, for health, for wonderful support from family, friends and even strangers, for medical specialists and all the care I have received over five years from dozens of healthcare professionals both in Oz and the UK and for public healthcare that has meant my total out of pocket expenses have been AUD $0 + GBP £0 for treatments that probably cost tens of thousands (thanks fellow tax-payers!).

Yet the experience continues to have its shadows. Given that the first side-effect mentioned on the consent forms I signed for both chemotherapy and radiotherapy is that those treatments are themselves carcinogenic, cancer is still quite likely to be part of my future, as is reduced life-expectancy. I am also aware of the costs the illness and treatment have brought to my health in other ways; being poisoned and burned are not generally conducive to good health (I've always thought that Nietzsche's boast that whatever did not kill him could only make him stronger was one of his sillier ones).

And I am not the same man I was. Being gravely sick has reconfigured my emotional and spiritual life, not to mention shaping my academic interests. For much of this I am grateful (and this is undoubtedly the true referent of Nietzsche's comment), especially for the reminder of my own frail mortality and the liberating realisation that survival is not our highest priority. These are important lessons that I hope always to keep close to hand. Has the experience also made me more pessimistic about our future prospects? Given that being ill significantly overlapped with the period during which I began investigating ecological and resources predicaments in greater depth, it is hard to tell whether the chicken or the egg came first.

The significance of my reaching this milestone was brought home powerfully to me a day or two ago when I came across the story of Kristian Anderson, a Sydney Christian man in his 30s with a wife and young kids, and who died from cancer two days ago. Kristian recorded more than two years of his physical, emotional and spiritual journey since diagnosis on a blog called How the Light Gets In (H/t Andrew Paterson). I ran out of tissues while reading it. I never met him, but I thank God for his life and witness, even amidst great darkness, and I pray for his widow and little boys.

Life is a precious gift. Let us rejoice in each day we receive.

11 comments:

kim fabricius said...

Shouldn't "And don't come back" be preceded by "Hit the road Jack/Byron"? Whatever, may the hodos be long, if narrow, winding, and often uphill.
Grace, peace -- and life,
Kim

Liz said...

That's great to hear, Byron. I will pray for continued good health for you in the future.

byron smith said...

Kim - Indeed, but it is also a true and living hodos, even as it runs through the valley of the shadow.

The title was intended also to refer to my cancer, to which I'd like to say, "And don't you come back no more, no more!"

Liz - Thanks!

Anonymous said...

Thanks Byron for writing and sharing your life and faith and struggles and hope. I'm really glad you're still around here.
Thanks also for introducing me to Kristian; I look forward to the day when I will meet that exceptional man.
Matt T

Ian Packer said...

Very glad you are still with us for many, many more days, Byron.

This is a great milestone.

Gordon Cheng said...

God is good.

Anonymous said...

Byron, I had many discussions today about young people with cancer, two of them now in God's hands and two still fighting the battle. Enid sent me your blog link and I read it with a smile on my face, glad you have made the 5-year milestone, sad for those that haven't and full of praise for God and the life he provides us all.

Guy

jessica smith said...

Praise God for his goodness to you and us!

Trevor Cairney said...

I'm so grateful to God that he has left you with us all to be enriched by your life. This is a wonderful day for you, your family and us!

Anonymous said...

Thanking God that he chose to give you life and take away your cancer.
Lynette

gbroughto said...

Thanks for responding with such humility and integrity to the last 5 years and allowing us into journey.. I don't care whether it was "chicken or egg" for your current research and suspect most of the best theology ever written had similarly inter-related origins.

Love the fact that your treatment has (financially) cost you nothing... do you have many North American readers?? They might have skipped over that little detail, but it is highly related to your ecological work of "who bears the cost" of "our [planet's] illness"... the American political debate seems so far behind the 8-ball on this because its bedrock belief that you don't pay costs for other people...